Today's topic is about the laws and our emotional connections. Love feels so good and exciting. When we first find someone attractive, we have no other connection to anything about them to attract any other distraction. We can only assume the clarity of someone new and the adventurous is always going to be a good experience until we are reminded somehow that there could be something else to shift our attention. It is the easiest stage of any socializing, to not know anything about the other. This causes curiosity and the mystery can be as exciting as the person's imagination can take them. Why does it work differently when there was tension between two lovers who were attracted but parted? 

The laws of the universe can counteract the law of attraction. Gravity does not sometimes work. It is always the miracle it represents. When you drop a ball, it falls. When you hold on to the ball that is the law of resistance. Another miracle. so why does everyone believe the law of attraction will only work when we try? It is always in action too. If your soulmate is not with you, you are still witnessing a miracle of the laws in action. You are a miracle worker. Letting go of the ball lets the ball fall. When you are being told to let go, it’s not to leave them but to allow the ball to show you action. It happens every time.​

So is it us or the laws at play? I have had trouble letting go of the ball. I trust that everything works itself so why do we always look back at someone we loved.  If you could go back and change one mistake, one decision, one answer what would you do? I know so much more now.  And more about what I could have done better. This is the direction I must go now.  This is what I am to do.

We are so easily replaceable after all. Love is a choice and nothing more. One can not force a connection with another no matter how hard they try, but one can find hope and trust in their own magnitude of passion that feels alive. No one should sit alone at night and cry. We are all just energy exchanging with another body except it feels so different with everyone but the one you are focused on? Some question the existence of a soulmate. These profound relationships can be such a life-changing experience that they can knock the wind out of your sails. Anyone to tell you they are easy all the time has not felt the intensity of change inside.

We attract those relationships to show what you hide so deep down inside that even you do not want to see. They are mirrors to your soul these beautiful relationships, meant to give you peace. I once had manifested the most extraordinary relationship that showed me everything I had thrown away in my life. This person was such a gift that I threw him away too. We never chose who we love to spend time with, but those with who we can easily open up our souls and not feel what is going on in our hearts because we know they will eventually leave if they know the truth. So we are energetically attracted to what we have to heal instead of what we truly love. 

Magically when relationships are great and the flow of energy is smooth, the two people who will look into each other's faces and say they are willing to stay is easy when it is all great. It is after when the argument happens and you see that there is more work to do, it is not the solid relationship that we crave but the two people ready to pull up their sleeves and do what needs to be done to make it great again. The moment you meet someone, you do not know if they are willing to stay just because they are willing to show up at the start. Trust the laws of the universe when things fall apart because if you are doing everything the way you are supposed to do it, then the universe is only responding to your heart. 

Cheers,
The Red Ferrari
Owner of Get the Soulmate and Dump the Rest
Author of Love in the 12th Dimension and Twinflames Reunite.
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Matter will not change matter, we have to change the energy field around us.  Because matter comes from energy.  The energy you surround yourself with creates the matter you are manifesting.  Miracles come so naturally for us and not so for others.  Miracles are always there.  When I drop a ball, gravity in action never cease to exist.  A miracle of gravity happens every single time.  The law of resistance is when we hold on to the ball and not let go.  By not seeing the result, that too is a miracle in action. 

Gravity is so simple.  Dropping the ball means to let go and let is all fall.  Resistance is holding on to the ball and not trusting instead.  How many times do we hold on instead of letting go?

We place so much effort on micromanaging and preventing disruption because we know that once we let go, that ball will always move faster than our own reflex actions.  What you resist persists. Whatever you don't like will keep showing up in your life and this has caused us to be reactive. 

How are you causing resistance in your flow of matter consciousness?  Do you need money, abundance, happiness or a relationship?  The law of attraction only works to attract when all the other laws are in equal harmony and resistance.  You can receive and experience when you take a step back and let go of trying to interrupt the flow of manifestations.  Its as easy as letting go of the ball and seeing where it drops finally.   

Cheers,
The Red Ferrari,

Owner of Get the Soulmate and Dump the Rest
Author of Love in the 12th Dimension and Twinflames Reunite.
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We may like the chase of those who pull back.  At one time or another, you were the one being chased, or you chased them.

We may find distant or avoidant partners attractive because their avoidance is a challenge for our ego.
 
We might find it more exciting to be caught up in a push-pull dynamic with someone than to say yes to love that is readily available and healthy for us.
 
The excitement comes from eroticizing rejection - it feeds that part of us that still feels like have something to prove.
 
Prove we’re lovable or worthy. That we are so special that we can change someone’s mind or behavior.
 
But that excitement you feel is also draining your energy and spiraling downwards on so many levels.
 
When we abandon ourselves for someone undeserving of our energy, our inner-child is usually hurting deeply and feeling afraid to be alone. This triggers our abandonment issues.
 
 It's ok to walk away when your heart isn’t being cherished, honored or supported.
 
 We're all going to have days where we show up as the worst version of ourselves.
 
But at the end of the day, we all deserve to be with someone who we know is in our corner.
 
 Someone who loves us on the hard days and treats the relationship as sacred.
 
Any time we waste chasing someone to give us love, there’s an unmet internal need for love and nurturance toward our inner-child.
 
You don’t need someone to trigger all of your insecurities by treating you like an after-thought or avoiding intimacy. Or avoiding you altogether.
 
It may feel unnatural to let go of this type of connection because you’re breaking a very old pattern … you might even find it “boring” to move towards love that doesn’t trigger you.
 
 Don’t worry, this doesn’t make you crazy, it means you really want to heal.
 
 And to heal, you have to practice letting healthy love in.
 
Healing occurs as you sever your addictions to shadow relationships and move toward people who hold you in your highest light.
 
Healing comes from doing self-acceptance work and making the relationship with you and your inner-child the number one relationship in your life.
 
And healing occurs from understanding yourself and your true nature in a relationship. 
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This is empowerment.  Once you see the patterns and using a few tools, let’s do something new