The Energy of Love: Coming Home to Yourself
To feel more joy. To feel more alive, more at peace, more in love.
It has always been within you.
You are not trying to create love — you are awakening to it.
This is your destiny. This is your truth.
Love isn’t something you have to chase outside of yourself.
It’s something you become by turning inward — feeling every feeling with compassion, even the uncomfortable ones. Loving yourself through every emotion.
Caring for yourself. Being gentle with yourself. Refusing to judge yourself.
This is where the magic begins.
This is the space where beautiful dreams are born and made real — by embodying the Being of Light you already are.
When you vibrate at the frequency of love, joy, and peace, all of life around you transforms and conforms to meet you there.
It’s not magic. It’s the divine intelligence of your soul, creating your reality from within.

7 Ways to Achieve Love Without Attachment
1. Love Yourself First
List everything you love about yourself — your heart, your resilience, your spirit.
You cannot give or receive unconditional love if you don't first honor your own worth.
If self-love feels far away, it’s not a flaw — it’s an invitation. Contact me for guidance on healing this most important relationship.
2. Recognize Attached Love Patterns
Become conscious: Are you loving your partner for who they are — or for how they make you feel?
Write it out. Notice when your happiness seems tied to what they do, rather than simply who they are.
3. Who's Loving You — You or Them?
Reflect deeply: Have you handed over the responsibility for your happiness?
Real love thrives when you are the source of your own light.
4. Witness Your Emotional Shifts
Next time your partner is upset, notice:
Do you immediately mirror their mood?
Do your self-worth and peace crash depending on their emotions?
Become an observer. Awareness is the first step toward freedom.
5. Pause Before Reacting
When conflict arises, STOP.
Breathe.
Reconnect to your own center before you respond.
By staying rooted in your own emotional space, you support your partner without losing yourself.
6. Love Without Expectation
Practice giving love without needing anything in return.
Plan a kind gesture, an act of love, without telling them.
Feel the purity of loving simply because you want to, not because you expect a reaction.
7. Discover the Freedom of Self-Sourced Love
Over time, notice how your world transforms:
You become the wellspring of your own happiness.
You stop needing — and start choosing — love.
You give more freely, receive more joyfully, and experience a relationship rooted in kindness, strength, and true connection.

Why Do We Want Love?
Everyone needs love — it's woven into our DNA, the foundation of our existence.
But beyond survival, why do you want love?
Is it to feel safe? Seen? Alive? Whole?
Understanding why you seek love is the beginning of aligning with the right kind of love — the kind that expands you, nourishes you, and lifts you higher than you ever thought possible.
Love isn’t just a feeling.
It’s a frequency. A choice. A way of being.
And when you embody it, you don’t just attract love — you become it.
You are the love you’ve been seeking all along.

The Journey Back to Love
We often want what we believe we do not have.
And love — true love — is no different.
But the beautiful paradox is this: Love comes when we already carry it within.
When we seek love from the outside, we are often focused on what we feel is missing inside.
We want to see love reflected back to us, hoping a partner will show us the parts we long to recognize within ourselves.

But energy is a mirror. Whatever frequency we hold inside — consciously or unconsciously — is what life, and love, reflect back to us.
This doesn’t mean that if you’ve experienced pain, betrayal, or even abuse, you "deserved" it.
It means that the places within us where unconditional love is still incomplete are calling for healing.
Every relationship we encounter — easy or hard — becomes part of the soul’s curriculum.
A reflection of what still needs to be loved, transformed, and set free within us.
Our lessons begin the moment we are born — even before.
We choose our parents long before we arrive in this life, aligning with the energies, challenges, and gifts that will shape our journey.
The love, the fears, the unresolved pains they carry are woven into our energetic blueprint through DNA, ancestry, and the echoes of past lives.
It’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the weight of what we inherit.
But you are not here to be overwhelmed.

You are here to remember: You were, and still are, a being of pure light and unconditional love.
Before this life, before these lessons, your soul was — and still is — whole.
Every challenge, every sorrow, every moment of suffering you face is not punishment.
It is an opportunity.
A sacred chance to heal.
A chance to reclaim your original nature: love without condition.
God does not punish us.
God is love itself.
And every hardship, every illness, every heartbreak is an invitation to return to love — to heal what was once fractured, and to become even more radiant in spirit.
Suffering is never the destination.
It is the bridge — and healing is the homecoming.
When you begin to see life this way — not as a series of punishments, but as a divine curriculum for awakening — everything changes.
Pain loses its power to define you.
The past loses its grip.
And every day becomes a miracle: another opportunity to heal, to love, to live as the light you truly are.
As we heal ourselves, we heal generations before and after us.
As mothers, fathers, partners, and friends, we share this healing through the very energy we live and breathe.

Each act of forgiveness, each moment of self-love, creates ripples of freedom across time and space.
When you embody unconditional love, you are no longer trapped by the lessons of the past.
You are living fully in the now — and you are becoming the miracle you once prayed for.
Love has always been your true home.
It’s not something you have to find.
It’s something you are here to remember.

The Energy of Love: Healing From Within
If you’ve ever wondered why love seems just out of reach, the truth is simpler — and deeper — than you might think:

Love arrives when you already carry it within.
We often search for love outside ourselves, believing it’s something we lack.
But when we seek love from the outside, we're often chasing reflections of the love we long to feel inside.

Energy is a mirror.
Whatever vibration we hold within — whether it's self-love, self-doubt, unresolved pain, or peace — will naturally be reflected back to us through our relationships and experiences.
This is why healing the energy of love within yourself is the most powerful work you can do.
It doesn't mean that if you’ve experienced pain, betrayal, or even abuse, it’s your fault.
It means that parts of your soul are still asking for love, healing, and deeper compassion.
Every relationship, every challenge, is part of your soul's sacred evolution — a reflection of where unconditional love is ready to bloom inside you.

Understanding the Soul’s Journey of Healing
Your journey with love didn’t begin with this lifetime.
Before you were born, your soul chose the parents, the circumstances, and the energetic blueprint that would shape your growth.
Your ancestral DNA carries not just physical traits, but emotional patterns, unresolved wounds, and soul lessons from generations past.
The energy of your parents, their joys and their sorrows, the healing they embraced or resisted — all of it became the starting point of your path.
Past life energy is interwoven here too.
Your soul came into this lifetime with lessons — some simple, some profound — all designed to guide you back to the truth: you are love.
You were always light. You were always whole.
And every experience in this lifetime is simply a call to remember.

Healing Love Wounds and Reclaiming Your Light
When painful experiences arise — whether illness, heartbreak, or hardship — it is never punishment.
God does not punish.
God is pure, unconditional love.
Every challenge is an invitation:
A sacred opportunity to heal, to expand, and to come home to yourself.
Even something as devastating as childhood illness or emotional trauma is a call from the soul to release old patterns, to break karmic cycles, and to ascend into deeper, lasting love.
Healing past wounds — both ancestral and personal — frees your energy.
It allows you to manifest healthier relationships, embody unconditional love, and experience the peace you were always meant to live.

Living the Energy of Unconditional Love
When you heal, you don't just heal yourself.
You heal your lineage.
You heal your future.
You become a living, breathing embodiment of love.
Love energy is not something you need to find in another.
It is a vibration you activate within yourself.
And when you vibrate at the frequency of love, joy, and peace, the entire universe responds — molding and conforming to match your inner reality.
Each moment you choose forgiveness over resentment, compassion over judgment, hope over fear, you rewrite your story.
You are not broken.
You are in the sacred process of becoming whole.

Each day is a miracle.
Each breath is an invitation to love yourself — and your life — with the same unconditional devotion that created you.
Love was never missing.
It has always been who you are.
You are simply remembering the truth.
– Vicki Martin

What is mirror gazing?  To mirror gaze, you use a mirror to make eye contact with your own reflection instead of closing your eyes and turning your attention inward. This practice can become deeply intimate, since it requires you to spend a few quiet, mindful moments sitting with not just your thoughts, but your own watchful eyes.

Looking at yourself in a mirror might make you feel uncomfortable when your reflection reminds you of imperfections and weaknesses. But when you look at yourself the way you want others to look deep into your soul, you will notice everyone will start to connect shortly after doing this exercise.  
Perhaps say something you would like to hear.  What was your reaction.  Did you feel uncomfortable?  This is showing you how you are pushing away the energy of the very same thing you want others to say to you.  
This exercise will shift your energy by first opening up to the receiving of words, acceptance, unconditional love and appreciation.