Chapter 14 Transmuting Fear

"We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark; the real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light"- Plato

Releasing fear and limiting beliefs are times when we will endure painful parts of our journey with lessons ready to be released. Each time fear comes along, it is for us to use compassion and love to transform into a source of love and light through tears and grief, only to raise it into a higher vibration of love and light. 

​It is common to rejected sadness and close off emotions ourself feeling that it is a weakness to cry. The flowing of tears allows energy to be released whereas repressing and shutting down the pain will create blockages and repressed emotions that later will be unmanageable.  Those blockages never go away. Each time a situation will continuously mirror the original pain and fear with different characters in the story, this will cause confusion and upheaval when these same emotions become trapped later with other circumstances.  Numbing the pain can be from emotional shutdown or the use of drugs or alcohol.  Other soul mates will show up to mirror this original pain, each one repeating the same story until the soul receives a better result and the pain is faced fully. Each one repeating the same result until the pain or fear is faced. Cry or scream. Not to create a scene or drama with another but privately where you can sort out your feelings. Write or journal your thoughts or take the time now to process and sort out your feelings.  It is that lesson released no longer a lesson to be repeated. Perhaps you may have many lessons but perhaps you were repeating the same ones repeatedly. 
 
Fear comes through now so strongly because, without our love and light, we are open to the nemesis fear to invade us. Fear causes more pressure on our inner self. We feel powerless, lack of control, sense of instability, deception, heartache, and attachment. With all of this taking up space, the energy of love gets stuck and will no longer flow. So how do we let go? We practice nonsuffering, non-engagement, and non-fear. 

 Buddha came to teach us that while suffering is a human condition, it isn't necessary. This does not mean pain does not exist. We all feel pain, but it is the anticipation of the pain that is suffering or reliving the pain after it has been done. Suffering happens when you wrap a story around the facts and make the situation alive. When you practice nonsuffering, you embrace the lessons the pain was to teach you and release.
 
When you choose to not take part in arguments this is a practice of non-engagement. This is usually a lesson “do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?" If you participate in an argument willingly, be aware that you are doing it for the sport because you enjoy it. We should connect with the opponent and find common ground and resolve a problem. Sometimes we must face individuals who thrive off the drama and this can be very difficult not to give in to the temptation of playing the part they are setting us up for to battle.  If the temptation is too challenging, there is an unhealed issue within us to resolve and they are doing us a great favor by showing us our weaknesses. To practice non-engagement, we must be fully negotiable yet completely comfortable and willing to let go of something or to give up something. 

"​They are chasing after rainbows. Those rainbows will take them to their gold eventually."

​Fear is our natural response to danger. It triggers our flight or fight response. The region where our sensations of pleasure are experienced is very close to the center where we experience violence. When we stimulate one of these areas in the brain, we can often stimulate the other. When we practice fearlessness, we can live in peace and practice calm and serenity. When we step beyond fear, violence, and death, we can act not as victims but how can we change our adversaries to look at our unhealed selves and access our creative healing energy to dream a better world. We cannot be grateful for how precious our lives are without knowing death; how happiness is not a privilege, but a gift not realized until you feel the absent numbness, that love is everything but without it is void. And fear feeds nothing but takes away life, happiness, and love. Be everything that gratitude can bring and release the fear that takes it away. 
 
Remember you are love and by vibrating at a soul level you will always attract love back to you. The laws are never removed from you no matter what lesson you are trying to learn. The law of attraction states that like attracts like and if you are resonating in pain, you too will attract in pain. If you need to release soul work, do not be afraid of what a soul will bring along in your path. Healers are presented to help us open our hearts or to let go and release what no longer serves us or maybe dysfunction in our relationships. We attach ourselves to those who we need to grow.  As long as our ego remains intact, these relationships will remain painful.
 
Many twins are never going to free up the laws of polarity. It is a law that will not change. Once you rise your soul above duality, you then experience the oneness of your true love.   In this exchange, the merging of the two souls are so unified that there is no form of separation and each sees the other as a unit within themselves.  That is why most twins do not realize they are separate from the other until there is a breakup that happens, and this is when most will discover they are in this form of a relationship.  Your job to reunite is to bring your vibration and energy back to the unified level before separation happened.  
 
To be in complete union, you must rise above the twin flame ego story.  Rid yourself of the attachment that you need to be with your twin in a romantic relationship. When the vibration high enough, your perspective will change. You will see that you have loved each other your whole life. You went through tragic circumstances at the same time. You will see the mirroring of your soul sharing and loved by your twin.  You went through the tragic circumstances at the same time or the polar opposite in some cases.  Moments of fun and growth during the same timelines and when one was emotionally empty inside, there would be similar patterns with your true love as well and mirroring the conflicts to resolve them apart.  While you were searching for yourself outside of yourself, they were living finding their way back to you.  You will have common missions perhaps on different scales  Your perspectives though could be opposites to learn the truth through the false perceptions.   Why do you believe now, after all that work during your lifetime that this will change now that you have met? Your soul may have recognized them. Then likewise, their soul recognized you and needs to process differently.  Let them work on themselves so they can hear their soul and work out their progression.
 
They are chasing after rainbows. Those rainbows will take them to their gold eventually. Many are pulled to people for different reasons. It is when the pull is mutual that there is a need for work to be done between the two. As you raise your vibration, your soul will also evolve. Your soul is a duplicate match so their vibration will change as well. As you work on yourself, they will become clearer and will respond to their own soul calls.  People will follow what they are pulled towards.  Most times the pull is one-sided.  When both are mutually attracted, the work is the same in both that are pulled.  Soulmates will find the attraction to minimize as the work gets done, whereas most true twins, the pull becomes more magnetic.
 
Many who are twins flames soulmates are unsure why their relationship felt different.  The relationship can confuse as there is no other relationship to compare as you only have one true twin flame. We only know what we have experience and if you only have one twin flame in existence then there is no way you can have experienced a twin flame relationship by trial. The healer twin or the false flame could have been close but being failed for the purpose of growth but the preparation of the intensity of growth and raising of one's frequency.  Most are left more confused than previously before they met their mirrored souls.  
 
Soulmate and Twin Flame relationships can be the trickiest and the most fulfilling types of relationships. They bring about an understanding of the Self and lessons and disharmony within us that we need to integrate. They can connect us with our highest bliss but also without the darkest shadows. By clearing everything that does not feel good, you will become free from all that will remain. You will see different lovers and soulmate's unresolved karma here too. The good, bad, and the ugly. 

Cheers, 
Red Ferrari

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