Chapter 11 RELEASING A PAINFUL RELATIONSHIP (Love in the 12th Dimension)

“Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.” – Dr. Seuss

​Breaking up is a painful process. How does one go from a dark separation to a true love that is more than ever imagined possible? Both polarities are existing. It is not as simple as ignoring the pain but look to why you resonated and attracted this to you. Where do you have similar experiences that may be showing up to now be healed and released? This will remove both the current and all the other previous same vibrating frequencies. This is also released in the partner if their soul matched that frequency too. The time following the separation of twin souls or twin flames will now process the darkest deepest depths of one's soul. 

Before this stage, you had your beliefs, concepts, and illusions but with awakening, these fall away, and you are left with nothing. You see how all the previous striving and seeking, all the ambition, the goal setting and the doing, the drama, and all you once believed to be true is dust, just like it would be anyway when you physically die. But you are still here, sitting reading this book, but without any idea what comes next. Nothing comes next. The ego, of course, does not celebrate this at all. So maybe it’s a dark night for the ego. The losing of the illusions. If you have truly awakened to enlighten your soul, you now abide mostly in the freedom of not knowing with your mind. Your plans, goals, ideas, attachments are nothing now. Any emotional attachment to anything or anyone outside of yourself only creates unhappiness. The realization maybe that hope is not your friend. If you are still hoping that something or someone will come from the outside to rescue you then you will probably continue to suffer. But this is the key to the darkness becoming light, hope is believing that you are worthy and a manifesting beautiful human being.  

The dark night of the soul is losing one's hope that life can now replace the despair. We can not control any outcome with our strategic efforts outside ourselves already created by our life choices with the trials and tribulations coming up to this point in our lives. A truly awakened soul still is a creator of their reality to exist in. One learns each day is a newer experience and living in the current experience is vital to one’s truth of existence. If you can have such an amazing beautiful sharing love experience with another human being carrying all that extra baggage, then starting over fresh to have more of that beautiful sharing love with another human being that too will be not mirroring the extra baggage more and more each day. 

You had come there to kick all the negative trash in the garbage. Now let that stink and dust be carried away. The fresh new energy will be lovely. Ego many hold you to who, when, where, and how or why. Focusing on joy, happiness, devotion, bliss, and those original bubble love feelings that starting you to believe you found that sig nicant love is where you need to focus your energy now, not in the dark.  Write a journal or letters to your previous lovers and relationships. Find peace and understanding as to why these had to happen in the first place. Any deep-rooted pain is now offering to come to the surface by the emotional detachment because of someone new. 

This is a look deep within your previous relationships and taking accountability to why things happened and to how you can find peace. Energetically this could be too much of a process to be done in one sitting and may need more time to process. Allow them time to adjust and compassion to heal and to forgive themselves. There is much finger-pointing blame in this process. We can usually find ourselves to see how their responses were not what would make everything so simple after all. It is this damage beyond repair that can be a challenge to accept that our happiness was removed by something we had full control of. Some journaling and allowing to bring up these deep feelings may surprise many because they were so hidden in the recesses of memories. 

There are hidden lessons and repeated patterns that are ready to be revealed to you. Allow these to be now understanding and no longer hidden to cause a problem. Updating your power now.  Earlier when discussing chakras, the energy centers connect with others through cords formed through emotions and attachments. Each person forms these cords to exchange energy. Old repressed memories or damaging discarded cords need to be released to make way for new fresh cords to be current and new. We are dragged back into the past and repeating karma through these vortexes. Our vibration will hold onto that energy if we do not let this go and be released. Old energies of the past will weigh down the new vibrations of the new. A relationship from a decade ago can impact a new fresh relationship because of the similar deep profound love shared but with this new person, the vibration will feel like the old person instead of the new lovely attractive person that you are attracted to you. Because of alignment and the constant vibration of energy, any cords re-moved with be replaced with the updated new version of what is surrounding you. The old will fall away and no longer interfere with the progress of this new adventure. Release these harmful toxic cords is a simple process. But it feels like the hardest to let go and release. Most will need to do this several times to be successful. Be patient with this. 

 Energetically we would like to believe intent alone is all you need. But it takes your determination, inner work and letting go of those burdened memories of the past. You will find the surprising benefit of those painful memories will fall away too. Most of these energy clearing sessions are done through mediations or intent with experienced energy healers who can guide you to what you need to do. Most people can find these videos as well online. You will feel clear and refreshed as if you have taken a shower and rejuvenated and refreshed. But you must remember healing the part of the mind that is subconscious is not going to be so easily done just because of magic. A true metamorphosis of your deepest darkest life will require you to see how all that darkness is an illusion that can be now changed into light because you are ready to believe that you are walking a path of enlightenment and your vibration and energy has too changed to adapt and release what you no longer resonate too. 

Cheers, 
Red Ferrari

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