" Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened"- Dr. Seuss Breaking up is a painful process. How does one go from a dark separation to a true love that is more than ever imagined possible? Both polarities are existing. It is not as simple as ignoring the pain but looking inside to why you resonated and attracted this pain to yourself. Where you have similar experiences that may be showing up now to be healed and released. This will remove both the current and all the other previous same vibrating frequencies. This could be also released in the partner if their soul matched that frequency too. Are you holding onto any pain from any previous relationships? Go back and review your past and see if anything comes up as you look at what never worked out as you expect it. Write a journal or letters to your previous lovers and relationships from your past saying everything you ever needed to say. Find peace and understanding to why these had to happen in the first place. Any deep-rooted pain, it is time to bring it to the surface. This is sometimes a process that may take a few sessions as each removal will take some getting used to energetically, allow yourself time. Some people from the past may be easier now to release because of the detachment moving onto someone new. This is a look deep within your previous relationships and taking accountability to why things happened and to how you can find peace. Allow time to adjust and have some compassion to heal and forgive yourself during this release. There is much finger-pointing blame in this process. We can usually find ourselves to see how their responses were not what would make everything so simple after all. If this is damaged beyond repair that can be a challenge to accept that our happiness was removed by something we had full control of after all. Some journaling and allowing to bring up these deep feelings may surprise many because they were so hidden in the recesses of memories. Some letters may be just useful to connect energetically for the next step. "Our vibration will hold onto that energy of this painful experience if we do not let this go. Another part is our vibration remaining attached to the energy of the past. If this is a relationship ended 6 months ago, did you change in that period of time? " |
AuthorVicki Martin (AKA The Red Ferrari) is the author behind Love in the 12th Dimension, How To Manifest a Soulmate and Get The Soulmate And Dump The Rest as well as Rediscovering Abundance: Healing the Inner Child to Resolve Relationship Insecurities, Subconscious Pain, and Poverty She is a makeup artist, esthetician accountant, subtle energy therapist, workshop facilitator, artist, stylist, relationship coach, and mother of 4.. Her work across multiple disciplines broadly addresses narratives of human experiences within and shared with others. If you want to read more similar articles, to find out more about the author or to schedule an online healing session, visit www.loveinthe12thdimension.com Archives
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